July 15 & 22, 2018

“The chief beauty about time is that you cannot waste it in advance. The next year, the next day, the next hour are lying ready for you, as perfect, as unspoiled, as if you had never wasted or misapplied a single moment in all your life. You can turn over a new leaf every hour if you choose.” – Arnold Bennett

How many times have you ever heard, “I’ll start on Monday.” Whether it be changing something about your life, starting something new, ending something, we often say we will start on Monday. It seems through the evolution of the workweek, we have forgotten that Sunday is the first day of the new week.

I was a “start Monday” person for a long time. It was only within the last few months that I realized there was a better way. Sunday is the beginning of the week and the best part is that I can start my week with Mass. We always hear that we should be listening to God, but how do we do that? It can be difficult to hear God. Our lives are so busy and so loud sometimes. I finally figured out the best way to hear what God was saying to me, and to turn my Mondays into Sundays!

I begin on Monday. I know, that seems like an ironic thing to do but hear me out? I look up the readings for the upcoming weekend and spend the week preparing myself by using the H.E.A.R. method. On Monday, I focus on the first reading. Wednesday is for the second reading and Friday is for the Gospel. I have a notebook that I write everything down in and follow the steps in this order.

H – His word. Record the verse.

E – Examine it. What did I observe about the verse? Write down 2-3 facts that I discovered as I looked more closely. These facts may answer some of the 5 “W’s” and “H” questions which I’ll cover below. And did I learn anything about God from this verse?

A – Apply it. How can I apply what I learned from this verse to my life? Is there a command to obey? A sin to confess? A promise I can claim? I write down my plan to live out this verse and the thoughts that God brought to my mind as I read it.

R – Respond in prayer. I write down my response to God, my prayer to him speaking to me from His word. Father thank you for…. Father please help….

Then I move on to the 5 “W’s” and “H”.

1) Who? Who is speaking? To whom are they speaking? Who is this verse about?

2) What? What is happening? What event/topic is discussed? What do I learn about the event? Topic? People? I look for key words, phrases, lists, comparisons and contrasts. What is the theme? I look for repeated words.

3) When? When does/will the event take place?

4) Why? Why does/will the event happen? Why is the topic mentioned?

5) How? How does/will the event unfold? How is the topic to be handled or made possible?

This method is not something I came up with myself, but by doing this I am better prepared to start my week and all of my “Monday starts” have much more meaning to me. Usually, whatever change I need to make comes out at some point through the week as I am listening to God. Go ahead! Give it a shot! And let me know how it works for you. 

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6-17 & 24-18

Hello SMHC Parish,

Baseball, “The Great American Pastime”. A hot summer day at the ballpark is like heaven to many. As my family and I were sitting (in the air-conditioned bliss of our home) and watching the St. Louis Cardinals teach the San Diego Padres a lesson, I began to ponder the similarities between love for Baseball and love for God.

The Roman Catholic Church can be traced back more than 2000 years. Throughout that time, it’s been met with love, loyalty, faith, hate discrimination, wars, and poverty. Yet its pillars stand tall and it continues to be a stronghold of solace and hope for its 1.1 billion members and countless communities worldwide. Baseball, although not quite 2000 years old has stood the test of time. The first recorded game in New Jersey was in June of 1846 where the New York Nine defeated the Knickerbockers 23-1. Baseball has been a comfort to our Nation during many wars, national hardships, and times of peace and prosperity.

Home, that’s what Church feels like to me. The Bible says, “And the dust returns to the earth as it once was, and the life breath returns to God who gave it.” Ecclesiastes 12:7.  Baseball is all about coming home and finishing where you began: home plate.

The Church has St. Peter, Mother Teresa, St. Francis of Assisi, and St. Therese of Lisieux. Baseball has Babe Ruth, Willie Mays, Barry Bonds and Jackie Robinson. Baseball even has its suffering servant, the Chicago Cubs. And even if there were nothing else to compare, there is hope and love, sins, and redemption.

“Every day is a new opportunity. You can build on yesterday’s success or put its failures behind and start over again. That’s the way life is, with a new game every day, and that’s the way baseball is.” Bob Feller.

Me & My House

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6-3 & 10-18

Hello SMHC Parish,

Just in case you missed the introduction of Thoughts from Me & My House in the bulletin in April, here it is again! It is a new column in our bulletin and will be updated bi-weekly. Sometimes this will be an insert or on one of the bulletin pages, depending on the length. It is designed to give ideas, advice, and provide local and worldwide Catholic news. We are looking for fun and creative ways to engage as many people of our Parish as possible. If you have an idea, question, or response: please send an email to [email protected]  We want to hear from you!  

Vacation Bible School is coming to our Parish from June 18th to the 21st for current preschoolers through 4th grade. “Shipwrecked: Rescued By Jesus” VBS is sure to be a hit this summer! There are so many different summer camps for kids to choose from and VBS has the best of all worlds. Not too long, not too short and packed full activities! How do we love VBS? Let’s count the ways! 

1)  FOOD: No one can deny that with each year of VBS, the food gets more delicious and fun! Our kitchen volunteers under the guidance of Lisa Kautza are sure to please the crowd!

2)  MUSIC: Who doesn’t love to sing and dance? VBS is full of fun music and dances to go along with it, don’t forget to ask your kids to show you their moves!

3)  CRAFTS: Handmade is the best, and all the kids will be buzzing to show you what they’ve made!

4)  FUN: Object lessons to challenge the imagination and keep those hands busy!

5)  FAITH: Add time for the Bible and God to all the fun, and VBS is complete!

What makes VBS even MORE fantastic? Volunteers! The names and faces you see all the time, and the new ones that come each year! Don’t worry if your child is older than 4th grade, there are many opportunities to help. Contact Stacie Hergenreter to register or with any questions you may have. Hope to see you there! 


Change is inevitable. Both welcome and unwelcome changes shape who we are and where we are to go. The Catholic Church is no stranger to changes. Some have been drastic and quick, others slow and steady. 


Think about Vatican II. It was a shock to many when Pope John XXIII convened the Second Vatican Council, which sought to renew and revitalize many aspects of the Catholic Church. Some have welcomed and encouraged it, while others have reacted with confusion and worry about the direction Catholics were to go. 

Changes are coming again. It doesn’t take much more than the evening news to see it. Pope Francis has said, “We are not living in an era of change, but a change of era.” The line between the critics of Pope Francis and his adversaries is thin, but his stance on Pastoral change seems to be moving in the same direction our society is.  The challenges that we face today are very different than they have been in the past. In 60 years will we be talking about today the same way we talk about Vatican II? 

The age of technology is upon us. The latest news is a notification away on our handheld devices. Social media is constantly pushing and pulling our attention. This can be seen in different lights. On one hand, the access that we have now is vast and it’s easy to educate ourselves and stay in touch with what is happening all around us. On the other hand, is this a threat to the family unit? Kids are not just learning from their parents and teachers anymore, but from everything they see on the screen. People of all ages can be swayed by a piece of false information on the internet. Our country is at a point of distress and separation, and the headlines being pushed to everyone instantly don’t seem to be helping. “The internet is becoming the town square for the global village of tomorrow.” – Bill Gates

Is there a way to embrace the change and make it work to help our future generations? Families are much busier now than they ever used to be. We can’t just rely on Catechists to teach our youth, there is a vast pool of information online that is available at the click of a button. Hey Google….

Closer to home, our own Parish can see the effects of the change of era we are facing. Our pews are not so full on Sundays. The traditions that shaped the Baby Boomers and Generation X are changing. Many children come to religious education classes but that is the extent of their involvement in the Church. This can work for a while, but eventually not just the programs, but the whole community will suffer.

How do we respond? How do we move into a modern era that embraces the family unit of today and keeps our Parish moving? What are YOUR ideas SMHC? Child care during Mass? Different Mass times or days? What are your thoughts on filling up the pews? What are YOU seeking from our Parish? Joshua 2415 wants to hear from you!

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Hello SMHC Parish.  Joshua 2415 here for your entertainment, support, and pleasure! Summer is quickly approaching. Religious Education classes have either ended or will soon. The business of church activities is slowing down and making way for a busy summer. Vacation time is here. Summer sports have begun, and we are all looking forward to long days on the ball fields. The weather is nice, the days are longer. With the longer daylight hours, we often try to fit even more into our schedules than we do the rest of the year. Where will the church fit into your crazy summer schedule?


Saint Mary – Holy Cross Parish is looking for new (and tried and true) ways to keep our Parish thriving! As said in 1 Corinthians 12:12, “As a body is one though it has many parts, and all the parts of the body, though many, are one body, so also Christ.”


What you would like to see more of? Summer Bible studies for the whole family? Have an idea for a small group of any kind? Summer youth group ideas? Picnics, BBQ’s, Ice Cream Sundaes, or kickball after Mass?  


Tell me how your family fits church into your busy summer schedule.


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